People Are Always Making the Best Choices They Can

This knowledge can and will change how you view life. People are always making the best choice that they can with the available of resources they currently have. This is an old NLP Presupposition, but it has a far reaching impact of how you can look at life. Every decision you have ever made, you [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:42:07+00:00May 9th, 2017|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on People Are Always Making the Best Choices They Can

Pacing and Leading

This is one of the most most important topics in NLP. Pacing and leading is the power to gain rapport with someone and then lead them somewhere new. It can mean the success or failure of your relationship, how fluid your business associations will be, and even how well you connect with your family. Having [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:32:11+00:00April 22nd, 2017|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on Pacing and Leading

Anchoring

A simple concept in NLP has even more profound implications that some don’t touch on. Anchoring is a term that was coined in Neuro-linguistic Programming years ago. Some psychologists refer to the concept as association, but more than anything it is a concept that can be used to your tremendously positive benefit, or as many [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:30:26+00:00March 24th, 2017|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on Anchoring

Rapport

People tend to make a simple concept rather complicated and today people seem to come to confusion when discussing what rapport is. “Is it the same body language?” “Is it saying the same things?” “Isn’t it just liking someone?” It is all of those things, but it is even simpler than that. Rapport is sameness. [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:29:20+00:00March 14th, 2017|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on Rapport

What to Do When You’re With an Insecure Man

So you have found yourself with an insecure man, what do you do now? Sure we all have our insecurities, but I have found this to be the one that women hate the most. This is also one of the biggest problems that causes the most issues in a relationship. What does it mean when [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:28:29+00:00February 23rd, 2017|Categories: Coaching|Tags: , |Comments Off on What to Do When You’re With an Insecure Man

Why You Shouldn’t Treat Your Lover Like Your Best Friend

It is said over and over again that someone should look for a best friend in a lover, but this isn’t 100% true. People say they want someone that they can spend their life with. They say that they want someone that they can share their whole life with. And then, many times when they [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:27:30+00:00February 18th, 2017|Categories: Coaching|Tags: , |Comments Off on Why You Shouldn’t Treat Your Lover Like Your Best Friend

She is the Ocean and He the Ship

“Like a ship cutting through a vast ocean, the masculine decides on a course and navigates the direction: the feminine energy itself is undirected but immense, like the wind and deep currents of the ocean, ever-changing, beautiful, destructive, and the source of life.” -David Deida Lately, I have been getting a lot of questions about [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:26:17+00:00February 4th, 2017|Categories: Coaching|Tags: , |Comments Off on She is the Ocean and He the Ship

How I Used Transactional Analysis to Catch an Airplane

The other day I missed the booking for my flight and I was told abruptly that I was out of luck. It wasn’t my fault. Actually, it was. I had plenty of time and was just checking my email in the airport terminal before I went to go get my ticket, but now the threat [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:25:12+00:00January 20th, 2017|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on How I Used Transactional Analysis to Catch an Airplane

The Power of Perspective

New points of view can mean the world to your change and growth. Recently I have been doing some traveling and it has never been more clear to me just how valuable dissenting opinions and differences can be. Most people move away from anyone that is different from them. They avoid challenges to their current [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:10:58+00:00October 22nd, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , , |Comments Off on The Power of Perspective

Subcommunication And How It Can Change Your Life

Affirmations suck. While they might eventually work, do you think that the confident person you want to be is telling himself or herself in a mirror how confident they are every day? There is an underlying message that you tell yourself each and every time you do these affirmations. This message is called subcommunication. A person [...]

By |2018-01-27T14:00:51+00:00October 7th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , |Comments Off on Subcommunication And How It Can Change Your Life