Subcommunication And How It Can Change Your Life

Affirmations suck. While they might eventually work, do you think that the confident person you want to be is telling himself or herself in a mirror how confident they are every day? There is an underlying message that you tell yourself each and every time you do these affirmations. This message is called subcommunication. A person [...]

By | 2018-01-27T14:00:51+00:00 October 7th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , |Comments Off on Subcommunication And How It Can Change Your Life

What is Transactional Analysis?

I used to think transactional analysis was useless. While studying Neuro-Linguistic Programming, I generally avoided most things that psychologists were using because it all seemed so unhelpful. Often what it seemed like they were simply doing was analyzing the content of the problems rather than working on the structure of the problem. My research showed [...]

By | 2018-01-27T13:51:03+00:00 September 5th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on What is Transactional Analysis?

3 Keys to Using Conversational Hypnosis

Conversational hypnosis might just be easier than you think. Using your words to influence others is a great skill to have. Through our words we can build deeper rapport, become closer with others, and have them follow our lead. Likely they will even like you more! There are 3 forms of hypnotic linkage that you [...]

By | 2018-01-27T13:45:07+00:00 August 28th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on 3 Keys to Using Conversational Hypnosis

How to Cope and Overcome Jealousy in a Relationship

Our emotions highest intention is always to serve us. In a previous post, we talked about emotions and why we have them. Using an extreme example will allow us to get an even better understanding of why we have these emotions and why they serve us. Today we are going to talk about one of [...]

By | 2018-01-27T13:41:43+00:00 August 23rd, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , |Comments Off on How to Cope and Overcome Jealousy in a Relationship

It’s About the Person You Become

Have you ever had a hard time getting the things you want most in life? Maybe you have even heard about the law of attraction? The law of attraction which was popularized in the hit movie by Rhonda Byrne, The Secret, states that what you think about you bring about. Focusing on that what we [...]

By | 2018-01-27T12:15:38+00:00 August 13th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on It’s About the Person You Become

Why Do We Have Emotions?

Have you ever wondered why you are emotional about something or why this one specific emotion is holding you back in life? One of the things that I have found is that humans were incredibly designed. The presupposition (presumed assumption) that I usually work with is that a person is always making the best decision [...]

By | 2018-01-27T12:13:44+00:00 August 5th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on Why Do We Have Emotions?

What Do You Want?

The genie said you get three wishes, and you can have anything you want.  Do you know what you want in a relationship or even life? I can’t tell you how many times I have been on a date with a girl and she told me she had no idea what she wants in a [...]

By | 2018-01-27T12:11:51+00:00 July 27th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , |Comments Off on What Do You Want?

7 Steps to Being a Skillful Negotiator

Do you hate negotiating or just wish that you were better at it? Will you negotiate for me? Was a question that I have been hearing a lot in my life lately. It’s been part of the this powerful skill set that I have learned in the past few years, and I really love negotiating, [...]

By | 2018-01-27T12:06:02+00:00 July 15th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , , , |Comments Off on 7 Steps to Being a Skillful Negotiator

What is Identity Shift?

Change happens in an instant. All the time and any time that anyone has ever made a change in their life, it has happened in a moment. Have you believed what they told you? That change is hard and takes forever. Were you listening to them when they told you all the things about yourself [...]

By | 2018-01-27T12:04:36+00:00 July 13th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , , , |Comments Off on What is Identity Shift?

How To Relate With Other’s Energy

Have you ever noticed how it feels as though you are attracting a certain type of person in your life? While also I am sure you have had the feeling of drifting away from others and having people who once meant a great deal to you move out of your life more and more. I [...]

By | 2018-01-27T12:03:13+00:00 July 10th, 2016|Categories: NLP for Life|Tags: , |Comments Off on How To Relate With Other’s Energy